Posted by Lee Rosenberg
Maybe you picked up a girl, got her number, and invited her on a date. Now she's at your pad. What happens next depends a lot on the condition of your place.
Is it clean? If not you're in big trouble. Before you find yourself in this predicament, hire a maid.
Next, buy a bunch of sconces, candelabras, and red candles.
Why would I want to decorate my place the way a woman would decorate hers? Aren't candles feminine?
Yes. But women love candles. When women fantasize about being seduced, it always involves candles and dimmed lights. This sets the mood.
Load up your iPod with lots of sexy songs. I suggest downloading some Enigma, Serge Gainsborge (especially the song Je T-Aime), Eric Carmen (Hungry Eyes), and Teddy Pendergrass (Turn Off The Lights). Once again, this is just more stuff that sets the mood.
Next, get some incense.
Get a bunch of soft pillows to cover your couch and bed. Women love cuddling with soft pillows. If you can get a woman in the mood for cuddling, it's game over.
Load up on lots of massage oil. Women love massages and massage is a great way to get their clothes off and put them in the mood for sexy time.
Buy a bunch of wine and cheeses. The alcohol will lower her inhibitions and put her in the mood for intimate relations.
Do you see what I'm doing here?
I'm involving all five senses: Visual, auditory, kinesthetic, olfactory, and gustatory. If you stimulate a woman's five senses, it eliminates the possibility of her rejecting your sexual overtures.
However, if you do not know how to flirt, you're doomed to a life without quality women. If you're ready to get this area of your life together, check out some romantic comedies and pay attention to how the men flirt with the women. Once you get the hang of it, go out and practice in the field - bars, nightclubs, bookstore, coffee shops, and the DMV. This is the only way to get good with women.
This will work whether you make your money from marketing, advertising, the finance world, selling autos, or something else.
Whether you're into blogs, gardening, sports, spirituality, religion, traveling the world, being a family man, or health and fitness, this advice will help you.
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Posted by Lee Rosenberg
The cold hard truth is that women are more attracted to good-looking guys. Let's take this a step further and say that women usually are not attracted to ugly men.
Yes, that's right: If you are not attractive, even with the best personality in the world, you probably won't attract quality women.
Sure, you can slump through life settling for women too fat to get through the bathroom door, ladies with more facial hair than you can grow, or, even worse, emotionally damaged females.
But who wants that? You don't. You're better than that.
So what's the solution?
You could pay a surgeon to carve Brad Pitt's facial features into your mug. But I've got a much cheaper and less painful solution.
It has to do with finding a look that works for you. So for example, if you're a big burley guy don't wear clothes three sizes too small for you. If you're on the smaller size, make sure clothes are not big and baggy on you.
Another thing that can really help is finding a good hair stylist - especially if you have difficult hair.
What to do if you're losing your hair: shave it. Women find nothing more pathetic than a man losing his hair - especially when he tries to conceal it with the comb over.
But most females find a cleanly shaven head sexy and empowering.
Just remember this: going bald isn't a choice but shaving it is one.
Being well groomed: the devil's in the details and women notice everything. Grimy nails, an unshaven neck, and body odor will subtract points from you in the eyes of many a woman.
So buy a good deodorant, shave your neck, and get a manicure. These little details will make all the difference.
Follow my instructions and you'll be a handsome man in no time.
This will work whether you make your money from marketing, advertising, the finance world, selling autos, or something else.
Whether you're into blogs, gardening, sports, spirituality, religion, traveling the world, being a family man, or health and fitness, this advice will help you.
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Posted by Lee Rosenberg
Many guys do not like to go to bars or night clubs. I get it. You have to speak over the loud music and deal with lots of drunk people. To add insult to injury, drinks and entrance fee can be bankrupting to your wallet.
If you belong to a gym this can be a great place to meet and attract women. When women are at the gym they have a lot of endorphins running through their body. This means that they'll be more receptive to meeting guys. Plus, women rarely get approached in the gym.
So how do you do it? What's the best pick up line?
Don't over think it, my friend.
Just get eye contact and use a simple hi. And don't forget to smile. She'll say hi and smile back - it's the polite thing to do.
Then make a comment about some something happening in the world. Stay away from topics that reveal your political affiliation. It's too early yet. Pop culture or media is always good. She may respond. She may not. No worries. No matter what, move on.
You're someone she knows now. The next time she sees you, she'll smile and probably say hi. This time have a longer conversation. Make her laugh. Maybe tease her a little. Then move on.
The third time you see her, ask her out for coffee. I think you'll be pleasantly surprised with the results.
One more thing: Don't limit yourself to one girl. Instead, talk to every female in your gym. Do exactly as I explained above. Do this for a month and you'll have more dates than you know what to do with.
Heed this advice. Even if your hobbies include gardening, collecting cars, sports, spirituality, religion, or travel, this advice will work.
Even if you make a living from finance, a home business, search engine optimization, selling weight loss products, or marketing, you'll get results from this advice.
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Posted by Lee Rosenberg
You may be amazing with women. Maybe you can talk to any girl you choose. Maybe you can get gobs of numbers. Perhaps you have more dates than you know what to do with.
But at a certain point, you are going to have to invite girls to your house. If your pad is in shambles, you're in big trouble. The condition of your home says a lot about you - for good or ill. If your place is strewn with trash and smelling of foul odors, a big red flag will go off in a woman's mind that says: Do not date this guy, he's a loser.
On the other hand, if your pad is clean, you'll win big points. If the woman was on the fence about you, she'll want to jump your bones. It is that important.
So what does a clean house entail?
Thought you'd never ask.
Make sure there's no dirty laundry or dirty dishes laying around. Get rid of any food left out because this will leave a heinous smell. This really disgusts women.
Next, make sure you have clean sheets on your bed. Women can tell. They are turned off by foul smelling sheets.
Make sure your bathrooms are spotless. Any pee on the toilet seats or brown circles around the toilet bowl will make women want to vomit.
Also, be sure to vacuum. Any dust bunnies scattered across your floors are a huge turn off.
Moreover, dirty floors are a sign that you don't take care about yourself. So be sure to mop up before having a girl over.
Heed this advice. Even if your hobbies include gardening, collecting cars, sports, spirituality, religion, or travel, this advice will work.
Even if you make a living from finance, a home business, search engine optimization, selling weight loss products, or marketing, you'll get results from this advice.
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Posted by Josh Lubens
What kind of men do women find attractive?
Most men think you need looks, money, and fame to attract women.
Prima facie , this seems about right. Listen in on a gaggle of females chattering on about what they want in a man. They'll yap on about how they want a man sporting Johnny Depp's face, Christian Bale's physique, Warren Buffett's money, and John Lennon's fame.
Yet many of these females will sleep with and marry gentleman who don't even possess one of these things.
How do we resolve the paradox?
Here's the answer: the attributes women think they want in a man and the attributes that unconsciously drive them to see a man as a Prize are more diverse than Angelina Jolie's kids.
I'm going to talk about one of these attributes: assuming a girl sees you as the Prize from the moment you meet her.
In the movie Empire Strikes Back there's a scene where Han Solo is about to be frozen in carbonite.
Here's how George Lucas originally wrote the scene:
Princess Lea says, "I love you."
Han gushes back, "I love you too."
Lucas thought the writing was romantic. But really it was just cheesy.
So the day they filmed the scene, Harrison Ford, the actor who plays Han Solo, veered off script and did a little ad libbing.
When Princess Leia said, "I love you," like a pimp he responded with a terse, "I know."
I'll go out on a limb and guess that his ad libbed response is what turned this movie into a cult classic.
Whenever females hear Harrison Ford deliver the words "I know," their hearts thuds with excitement.
Don't women find his words a bit arrogant?
I wouldn't doubt it.
But get this: when a man sees himself as a Prize, women are hard-wired to sexual respond to him.
"What if a woman isn't attracted to me? Will this still work?" you may be wonder.
Yes. Beliefs are contagious. If your belief is strong enough, she'll start believing it too.
This will work whether you make your money from marketing, advertising, the finance world, selling autos, or something else.
Whether you're into blogs, gardening, sports, spirituality, religion, traveling the world, being a family man, or health and fitness, this advice will help you.
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Posted by Don Freedman
Since we were small children we were taught to act manly and dominant.
We were discouraged to act feminine. It's part of being socialized.
We learnt this from our parents, teachers, the media, and friends.
Let's look at an example.
Take a visit to a local toy store.
At every toy store they have a section for boys and one for girls. Boys aren't supposed to go into the girl's section unless they are buying a present for their little sister.
In the boys section you'll find G.I. Joes, Transformers, and Thomas the Train.
In the girl's section you'll find Barbie dolls and Dora the Explorer.
These toys aren't just "toys." They're teaching aids for training kids to become a man or a woman.
If a boy is caught brushing a Brat doll's hair his friends will most likely make fun of him and call him a girl.
If his parents catch him, they may punish him. That's because they fear he won't be properly inculcated into the role of a man.
This causes boys and men alike to stay clear of acting like a girl.
There's nothing wrong with this except that some of the best seducers have developed their feminine side. These men are called "Dandies."
They bounce back-and-forth between acting like a woman and a man.
In fact, their seductive power lies in that they cannot be categorized as masculine or feminine.
When a person cannot be categorized, they entrance others. We are attracted to those who entrance us.
The famous psychiatrist Dr. Freud famously said that people are bisexual. According to him, all of us are attracted to both males and females.
But social constraints prevent us from acting on these desires.
Women are attracted to the Dandy because he is a woman inside a man's body.
Dandies are notoriously insolent: they have very little need to please people - especially women. This is another facet of their allure.
To become a Dandy, train yourself to be attentive to detail, relinquish your need to please others, and develop your feminine side.
Here are a few historical Dandies: Rudolph Valentino, Oscar Wilde, and Andy Warhol.
This will work whether you make your money from marketing, advertising, the finance world, selling autos, or something else.
Whether you're into blogs, gardening, sports, spirituality, religion, traveling the world, being a family man, or health and fitness, this advice will help you.
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Posted by Cassidy Fletcher
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Posted by Don Freedman
I want to share some I learned from my favorite attraction expert Swinggcat.
One thing legions of men struggle with is sparking that magical spark called "attraction" with beautiful women.
Most people think attraction is just some magical thing that happens between a man and a woman.
What if I told you that it wasn't? What if you could spark attraction in a woman at your whim?
I used to think triggering attraction in women teetered on impossible. Then I studied Swinggcat's seduction tips and learned that it is super easy.
My favorite Swinggcat technique for building attraction is Push-Pull. The push part pushes away the girl and the pull part pulls her back in.
The back and forth movement of pushing the girl away from him and then pulling her back in builds attraction.
To get a feel for this, here's an example: The time you're chatting with a girl, compliment her with, "You have the best smile I've seen today."
She'll beam, "Thank you."
Then say, "I stand corrected. Actually you have the fourth best smile I've seen today. I'm gonna call you number four."
She'll protest, "That is not fair. I want to be number one."
Say, "For being feisty, I'm promoting you to number three. But if you keep complaining, I'm demoting you back down to number four."
Let's tear apart this example. When you're telling her how great her smile is, you're pulling her in.
When you're telling her she has the fourth best smile, you're pushing her away.
When you promote her back up to number three, you're pulling the poor girl back in.
The effect this will have on a girl is powerful. Attraction for you will be running thick through her veins.
Talk to her in this way for a few hours and you may not be able to get rid of her - that's how powerful this stuff is.
You may think this is a mean thing to do to a woman.
But if you deliver push-pull in a playful tone, women will see you as flirtatious, not mean. Instead of thinking you're a jerk, they'll see you as charming.
This will work whether you make your money from marketing, advertising, the finance world, selling autos, or something else.
Whether you're into blogs, gardening, sports, spirituality, religion, traveling the world, being a family man, or health and fitness, this advice will help you.
Visit Swinggcat's site if you'd like to get other seduction tips.
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Posted by Josh Lubens
The collective male's attempt at piquing a woman's interest runs the gamut from demonstrating a lightning-quick wit and sharing interesting stories about himself to doing magic tricks like a clown out of Barnum & Bailey's circus.
But more often than not, her eyes wander to her cell phone and then meander to the people behind him.
In fact, just about everything in her environment seems to enthrall her except for him, causing a billion and one insecurities to snake into his mind, such as...
1). She must think I am ugly as sin.
2). Does she find me as boring as Velveeta cheese?
3). Do I have the personality of a houseplant?
4). Did I forget to wear deodorant?
5). Is my ego going to be an obituary in tomorrow's paper?
And if he's bitter, he might think: She's like a warm toilet seat - some guy was there before me, another will be there when I get up.
Like a hard working mule, he takes one last crack at making conversation.
But, alas, she stings him with, "It was nice meeting you but I have to go."
In retrospect, he may think: Damn! That fall-asleep boring conversation piece took the pickup to a crippling halt. It was like the one unlucky drink that shoves a wavering alcoholic off the wagon. I should have never used it.
Most of us have experienced something along these lines.
Many of us have thought: If I only had more interesting things to say, do, or show women, my outcome with them would be completely different.
Although there may be a speck of truth here, most great orators, politicians, and salesmen will tell you, "The content of what you say is far less important than how you say it."
I've seen comedians put an audience in stitches one night yet bomb the next. While the standup routine they used was exactly the same on both nights, their delivery was completely different.
For this reason...
You won't learn any interesting conversation pieces, cute lines, or fall-on-the-floor-laughing jokes in this article.
Instead...
I'm going to teach you a communication secret that captivates women.
But before I go on, I want you to make me a promise (and, as you'll see in a few minutes, this promise is for your own good)...
No matter how boring you think you are (even if you think you're more boring than a 90 year old woman living in a nursing home), I want you to promise me that you won't change the content of what you say to women for one week.
Here's why...
I want you to see how adding just this simple secret to what you currently do and say when interacting with women can dramatically increase your success.
In school, you're taught to finish a thought or idea before moving onto the next. Great advice if you want to plunge women into a narcoleptic stupor.
But if you want women to hang onto your every word, you need to break this crippling habit and start using nested loops.
A nested or open loop is when you start an idea, thought, or story, and instead of finishing it, you move onto something else. In other words, you keep the loop open.
Whenever the human mind is presented with an open loop - unfinished idea, thought, or story - it seeks closure.
Open loops are a form of what I call "tension loops" because they create unresolved emotional tension in a woman.
Even if a woman finds you as interesting and attractive as a sewer rat, the open loop unconsciously compel her to hang onto every word that pours out of your lips and emotionally drives her to see you as a valuable Prize.
Because she seeks resolution to the tension you've sparked in her mind and knows that you can release the tension, she perceives you as having value and heeds close attention to everything you say.
Imagine a slovenly bum and a high maintenance babe crossing paths. The bum makes a tragic try at conversation with her by saying, "Hello. My name is Jack and I am homeless. Let me tell you about how I became homeless."
Chances are, she'd have no interest and scurry off because she finds him aesthetically repulsive, possibly scary, and of little value.
But if he fired an open loop at her, such as, "You know what they say about women with green eyes?" he would probably spark unresolved tension in her body. She'd feel a yen for emotional closure. Closure only he has the power to bring her.
And bada bing, bada boom...
This vagabond she normally would never give the time of day to piques her interest and has value (or Prizability) in her eyes.
Furthermore, open loops can build sexual arousal...
When you spark emotional tension within the context of flirting with a woman it becomes sexualized in her body.
But there's a facet of open loops I haven't mentioned yet...
It's called the "Zeigarnik effect."
One of the early contributors to Gestalt psychology Bluma Zeigarnik noticed that waiters remember orders up until they serve the food. Then they forget. This led to the discovery that the mind retains the most information when a loop is open.
How does this help you? A woman will probably remember everything you tell her between opening up a loop and closing it.
I want to share with you a powerful application of open loops I learned from watching politicians...
Oftentimes, when politicians are asked a question, they skirt around it for several minutes, talking about almost irrelevant topics, before directly addressing it. This keeps the listener in suspense.
How can we apply this to seduction and attraction?
Here's an example...
When most men meet a woman they utter their name and then shake the woman's hand. Usually that's it. The interaction is over.
An hour - or even a few minutes - later she probably won't remember his name or anything about him.
Instead, when a woman asks me my name I use an open loop.
I may say,
"When I was a kid my mom told me that she and my dad originally named me Arete, which means all the qualities that make up someone with good character.
And I said, 'Wow, mom... that's awesome! Why didn't you keep the name?'
And she said, 'Well honey, you're lucky we didn't name you Arete because it's the name of a goddess from Greek mythology.
But we didn't really give a crap about you having a female name.
The real reason we didn't name you Arete was that our dog was named Arete - we really loved the name.
And on the day you were born our dog was hit by a car. When we looked at you, we didn't want you to remind us of the dog. So we named you Josh instead.'"
In lieu of giving her the instant gratification of learning my name I'm using an open loop. This builds unresolved tension inside her body.
Her unconscious mind seeks to bring closure to this loop, inciting her to hang on to my every word.
Had I just told her my name from the get go, she might have judged, "This average looking guy probably lives a boring life," and then moved onto another man.
But by using an open loop, I had an opportunity to demonstrate that I come from cultured people, have a sense of humor, tell great stories, and possess value (or Prizability).
Plus, due to the Zeigarnik effect, she will remember that I was the guy almost named Arete.
This will work whether you make your money from marketing, advertising, the finance world, selling autos, or something else.
Whether you're into blogs, gardening, sports, spirituality, religion, traveling the world, being a family man, or health and fitness, this advice will help you.
If you'd like to get other great seduction tips check out this website.
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Posted by Carlos Marquiz
Here's a very seductive quote:
"On a January evening of the early seventies, Christine Nilsson was singing in Faust at the Academy of Music in New York.
Though there was already talk of the erection, in remote metropolitan distances "above the Forties," of a new Opera House which should compete in costliness and splendor with those of the great European capitals, the world of fashion was still content to reassemble every winter in the shabby red and gold boxes of the sociable old Academy. Conservatives cherished it for being small and inconvenient, and thus keeping out the "new people" whom New York was beginning to dread and yet be drawn to; and the sentimental clung to it for its historic associations, and the musical for its excellent acoustics, always so problematic a quality in halls built for the hearing of music.
It was Madame Nilsson's first appearance that winter, and what the daily press had already learned to describe as "an exceptionally brilliant audience" had gathered to hear her, transported through the slippery, snowy streets in private broughams, in the spacious family landau, or in the humbler but more convenient "Brown coupe" To come to the Opera in a Brown coupe was almost as honorable a way of arriving as in one's own carriage; and departure by the same means had the immense advantage of enabling one (with a playful allusion to democratic principles) to scramble into the first Brown conveyance in the line, instead of waiting till the cold-and-gin congested nose of one's own coachman gleamed under the portico of the Academy. It was one of the great livery-stableman's most masterly intuitions to have discovered that Americans want to get away from amusement even more quickly than they want to get to it.
When Newland Archer opened the door at the back of the club box the curtain had just gone up on the garden scene. There was no reason why the young man should not have come earlier, for he had dined at seven, alone with his mother and sister, and had lingered afterward over a cigar in the Gothic library with glazed black-walnut bookcases and finial-topped chairs which was the only room in the house where Mrs. Archer allowed smoking. But, in the first place, New York was a metropolis, and perfectly aware that in metropolises it was "not the thing" to arrive early at the opera; and what was or was not "the thing" played a part as important in Newland Archer's New York as the inscrutable totem terrors that had ruled the destinies of his forefathers thousands of years ago.
The second reason for his delay was a personal one. He had dawdled over his cigar because he was at heart a dilettante, and thinking over a pleasure to come often gave him a subtler satisfaction than its realization. This was especially the case when the pleasure was a delicate one, as his pleasures mostly were; and on this occasion the moment he looked forward to was so rare and exquisite in quality that--well, if he had timed his arrival in accord with the prima donna's stage-manager he could not have entered the Academy at a more significant moment than just as she was singing: "He loves me--he loves me not--HE LOVES ME!--" and sprinkling the falling daisy petals with notes as clear as dew.
She sang, of course, "M'ama!" and not "he loves me," since an unalterable and unquestioned law of the musical world required that the German text of French operas sung by Swedish artists should be translated into Italian for the clearer understanding of English- speaking audiences. This seemed as natural to Newland Archer as all the other conventions on which his life was molded: such as the duty of using two silver- backed brushes with his monogram in blue enamel to part his hair, and of never appearing in society without a flower (preferably a gardenia) in his buttonhole."
This will work whether you make your money from marketing, advertising, the finance world, selling autos, or something else.
Whether you're into blogs, gardening, sports, spirituality, religion, traveling the world, being a family man, or health and fitness, this advice will help you.
If you'd like to learn how to get girls to like you, check out this site.
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