Posted by Lee Rosenberg
You may think that based your looks, age, bank account, and social status that there's a caliber of females you can - or cannot - attract.
If you think this, you're dead wrong. Don't feel bad. Most men think this way as well - and that's the problem.
The number one factor that determines which girls you attract and which ones you don't is your belief system.
You could have Brad Pitt's mug. But if you're lacking in confidence, you will never attract the women of your dreams.
On the other hand, if you're uglier than Joe Pesci but your confidence is through the roof, you'll get any woman you want.
So how do you become confident? Easier said than done, right?
Well, not so fast. Developing confidence can be easy if you know how to do so.
One of the best ways to develop your confidence is to rehearse affirmations.
Affirmations are statements you presume to be true about yourself. When you rehearse an affirmation, it conditions your subconscious mind to find evidence of it in the world.
So, if you kept rehearsing the affirmation "I'm a loser," your subconscious mind would spend its time trying to find examples in your daily life of you being loser.
Obviously, this is not the kind of affirmation we are after.
Instead, we want to focus on positive affirmations. Here are three of them that will help build up your confidence with women.
1) Women find me charming, attractive, and irresistible to be around.
2) Women want to talk to me.
3) I deserve any woman I want because I'm a high value male.
Practice these aloud before you go to bed a when you wake up in the morning. These affirmations will train your subconscious to look for examples of women seeing you as charming, attractive, and irresistible to be around. Before you know it, you'll have more confidence than you know what to do with.
This will work whether you make your money from marketing, advertising, the finance world, selling autos, or something else.
Whether you're into blogs, gardening, sports, spirituality, religion, traveling the world, being a family man, or health and fitness, this advice will help you.
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Posted by Lee Rosenberg
When women first meet you, they are sizing you up. If you don't live up to their "ideal man," they'll nix you immediately - or will they?
Most men get nixed by women within the first few minutes of interacting with them.
Here's why...
Women will ask you questions, such as, "What do you for work?" What do you do for fun?" "What kind of music do you like?" and "Where did you go to school?"
Most men answer these questions with direct answers. This, not surprisingly, allows the woman to categorize you.
Don't do this. Instead answer her questions with indirect answers. Giving a woman an indirect answer prevents her from categorizing you and stirs her to chase you.
Let's look at some examples.
If a woman asks you, "What do you do for a living?" maybe respond with, "I'm an architect. I build igloos for Santa's elves."
Obviously, this is not a truthful answer. Will women think you're a liar? Nope. Women are smart and know you're being a little cocky and snarky. Instead, it will compel them to want to know what you do for a living even more. In other words, they'll be chasing you.
Let's look at another example. If a woman asks you, "Where did you go to college?" you could say, "I went to clown school on Mars. I had a nervous breakdown because Martians are much better clowns than humans."
Let's look at one more example. If a woman asks you, "Where do you live?" you could say, "In a cardboard box on Skid Row. Back when I was poor, I used to live in a single cardboard box. But now that I'm rolling in money, I'm living in a home made out of three cardboard boxes. Life is good."
Have fun and come up with your own indirect answers to a woman's questions.
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Posted by Lee Rosenberg
Women test men all the time, both consciously and unconsciously. If you aren't aware of these tests, you will fail. As a result, women will lose attraction and respect for you.
Since this is a short article, I cannot lay out every test women throw at men. But I can share a few.
Test # 1: Fishing For Compliments
Have you ever had a woman ask you if she looked fat? Most men have. Do you know how most men respond?
"No, you don't look fat. You look great."
Why do men do this?
There are several reasons.
One is that they don't want to offend the girl. They want her to think they are a nice guy.
Two is that they are trying to win points with the girl. In other words, they want the girl to like them.
While this may quell a woman's low self-esteem for the moment, it ultimately kills all attraction. When you attempt to win a woman over it turns you into a courtier or sycophant. Women feel no attraction for sycophants.
Here's the way to pass this test: Respond with, "Yeah, you look huge. If you get any bigger, I'm gonna have to get a forklift to move you around."
This may seem mean. But it communicates that you are unwilling to give into her "pity party." As a result, women will respect you and you won't lose any attraction with them.
The exception to this is if the girl truly is overweight.
Test # 2: Buy Me A Drink
Many a man has been at a bar, spotted an attractive woman, approached her, and within a few minutes of conversation, she said, "Get me a drink."
What do most men do?
They buy the girl a drink and she says, "Thank you... but now I'm gonna go talk to my friends."
What is going here?
When you buy a female stranger a drink, it communicates that you don't have enough value to talk to her without buying her a drink. Although it is a nice gesture, it diminishes your value in her eyes. Do not do it.
This will work whether you make your money from marketing, advertising, the finance world, selling autos, or something else.
Whether you're into blogs, gardening, sports, spirituality, religion, traveling the world, being a family man, or health and fitness, this advice will help you.
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Posted by Lee Rosenberg
It is a scary world out there: many women yap on about wanting a guy built like Achilles with Matthew McConaughey's face.
But there is something that trumps a great body, a beautiful face, social status, and money: Being a master Storyteller. Every ladies man I've ever met was a great storyteller.
If you aren't a great storyteller, you're missing out - big time.
Becoming a great storyteller may seem like a daunting task but it is actually easy. In fact, you already are a great storyteller yet don't know it. Do you have stories you share with close friends, family, and women you know well? I bet you do.
Here's what I want you to do: think about all the stories and experiences you share with friends and family. Write them out and make them a little more succinct.
Then share them with women when first meeting them. You'll be shocked at how well they work.
Here's a question you might be thinking: How do I transition into my stories during a conversation with a woman?
Here's what to do: figure out the premise of your story. Then turn the premise into a juicy headline. Let's pretend you had a one-legged uncle who won a marathon. The premise is this: people can still be successful athletes despite having serious setbacks.
Let's come up with a juicy headline. How about: "People are always complaining about how hard it is to accomplish things. That's a bunch of hogwash. I know cripples who outperform perfectly normal and healthy people. It's all about sheer determination." This is going to pique her interest. Now you can go into your story.
For each of your stories, try to come with a headline. Then go out and use them within the first few seconds of meeting a girl. I think you will be pleasantly surprised with the results.
This will work whether you make your money from marketing, advertising, the finance world, selling autos, or something else.
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Posted by Lee Rosenberg
In our culture, we are brainwashed to think women like nice guys. Your parents probably taught you to always compliment women, always pay for their meals, and always listen to a girl yap on and on. Society teach us to respond to a woman's carping with, "Yes, dear."
I'm about to barf.
This may work if you happen to be a woman's type. But if you're not, a woman will inevitably put you in "friend zone."
Even if this does work at first, overtime a woman's attraction towards will abate.
That's because when a man cedes a woman's every whim, she doesn't think he's nice and wonderful. Instead, she perceives him as a groveling gimp.
Does this mean chivalry is dead? Does it mean you should never open doors for women? No. Not at all.
You should do these things - especially if it's your style. But add some cockiness to it.
Here's an example. Let's say a woman asks you to get her an apple martini. Don't get her an apple martini. Instead, maybe get her a vodka tonic. Another cocky thing to do is this: make her tell you a joke or a story before getting her a drink.
Here's your homework: look back over the last year and think of all the situations you've been in where you were acting like a "nice guy." I'm willing to bet, nine out of ten times it killed attraction, right?
So as you think about each of these times, write down something cocky you could have done instead of acting like a "nice guy."
The next time you're in these situations, you won't fall into "nice guy" mode. Instead, you'll have a cocky response. As a result, women will be brimming with attraction for you.
The other thing you should do is pay attention to cocky guys. These guys may seem mean but I'm willing to bet they get a lot of girls. You can learn a lot from them.
This will work whether you make your money from marketing, advertising, the finance world, selling autos, or something else.
Whether you're into blogs, gardening, sports, spirituality, religion, traveling the world, being a family man, or health and fitness, this advice will help you.
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Posted by Lee Rosenberg
Do you know what most men do when they first meet a woman?
They bombard her with lots of questions, such as, "What's your name?" "What do you do for work?" and "Do you come here often?"
This seems perfectly innocent. It's an easy way to keep the conversation going. Moreover, women love to talk about themselves.
But when men do this, women act bored and often abruptly end the conversation.
What's going on?
There's nothing wrong with questions per se.
But here's the problem with asking lots of them...
Every time you ask a question, it requires effort from a woman. Unconsciously, she is asking herself: Does this guy have enough value that it's worth me answering this question?
To add insult to injury, if she's at a bar and drinking, the last thing she wants to do is answer questions - it makes her feel like she's on a job interview.
So what should you do instead?
Ask questions but ask them sparingly. Moreover, don't ask questions just to keep the conversation going. Instead, ask questions that spur interesting conversations.
A question like "Do you come here often?" is a bad question because it reaps a yes or no answer.
However, a question like, "If you could travel anywhere in the world, where would you go and why?" is a great question. It gets her talking. If you have traveled a lot, you can share stories about the places you've been.
Let's sum everything up: ask questions to probe for conversation topics that are relevant to her. Once you have found a conversation topic that interests her, feel free to talk about yourself. She will listen because it is something that interests her. Also, this will encourage her to share things about herself. Before you know it, you guys will be chatting up a storm like old friends.
This will work whether you make your money from marketing, advertising, the finance world, selling autos, or something else.
Whether you're into blogs, gardening, sports, spirituality, religion, traveling the world, being a family man, or health and fitness, this advice will help you.
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Posted by Lee Rosenberg
Most men make one of two mistakes with women and it squelches all attraction.
Mistake # 1: Showing Too Much Interest
When the collective "nice guy" likes a woman, he incessantly ogles at her, pays her compliments, and fondles her.
As a result, she thinks he's needy and loses interest.
Mistake # 2: Constantly Pushing Women Away
This is the bane of the consummate bad boy. Around women, he oozes languor. Instead of complimenting them, he makes fun of them. The physical affection he gives them teeters on zero.
A Middle-ground: Two Steps Forward & One Step Back
The master Lothario always takes two steps forward and one step back.
Let's break this down by starting with compliments and insults. A Lothario would start off with a small compliment - maybe about her clothes. Then he'd make a more brazen compliment about her physical beauty. He might say, "You're lips are very full and sexy." Then he'd take a step back by maybe adding, "But you wear too much makeup."
To sum this up, the first two compliments are steps forward. The slight insult is a step backwards.
Now let's analyze how the Lothario applies the principle "two steps forward and one step back" to the amount of attention he gives women. If a woman says something interesting, he might say, "That's really interesting." Then he may even start asking her questions about it. Next, to throw her for a loop, he might look disinterested and ho-hum.
Now the part you've been waiting for: How to apply the principle "two steps forward and one step back" to getting physical with women.
A master seducer starts by placing his hand on her arm. Then he rubs it a little. Next, before she can move his hand away, he removes it.
Then he may start rubbing his hand through her hair. After a good minute, he may grab a nice chunk of hair at the base of her scalp and gently pull (women find this very arousing). Then he will remove his hand.
Next, he'll resume rubbing her hair. Then he'll look into her eyes and softly brush his lips against hers. When she tries to kiss him, he'll pull back.
This turns women on - big time. Try it yourself and see how well this works.
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Posted by Lee Rosenberg
There's no denying it. We live in a visual society.
Magazines, television, cinema, and the internet constantly bombard us with images of unattainable bodily proportions.
Experts used to say, "Men are visual and women are tactile. But our visual culture has changed this. Women are increasingly visual. That's the bad news.
But there's some good news, my friend.
If you look around you'll notice plenty of big men attracting the attention of beautiful women. Although women become aroused when in the presence of a six-pack and a chiseled chest, they pick men based on the entire package.
So if you are overweight, hit the gym. Be the "you" you can be. But don't obsess over it. Work on your personality, career, and sense of humor. If you do this you'll attract the attention of more beautiful women than you know what to do with.
Most importantly, learn to seduce women.
How do you do this?
I thought you'd never ask.
The first step is learning to love yourself. What does that mean? It means not feeling inadequate because your body isn't up to par with the studs in the magazines. It means focusing on your best qualities. Maybe you have great hair or a great nose. Maybe you've got a great personality or a great job. Focus on that.
The more focus you put on what you have going for you as opposed to what's wrong with you, the more you'll see yourself as a prize women want to win over. When women see you as a prize, they'll naturally be drawn to you.
The second step is to learn to tease women. When you do this it demonstrates that you don't care about offending her. This is very attractive to women because the message you're sending them is that you have so many attractive women vying for your attention, you could care less about messing up your chances with them.
This will work whether you make your money from marketing, advertising, the finance world, selling autos, or something else.
Whether you're into blogs, gardening, sports, spirituality, religion, traveling the world, being a family man, or health and fitness, this advice will help you.
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Most men spend their time toiling away at bars and nightclubs trying to meet women. Sometimes they succeed. But, other times, all they have to show for it is a big hole in their wallet.
Why is this?
There are many reasons.
One, women at bars and clubs are superficial to the hilt. In this context, they are looking for their shining example of genetic perfection - think Brad Pitt's mug and biceps big enough to make Arnold Schwarzenegger blush. If you aren't "conventionally" attractive, it's a hard crowd to please. Many short, portly, poor or old guys find themselves ostracized from all the fun.
Two, women are focused on the outside appearance, not the inside. I knew a man who held a Ph.D in Astrophysics, spent four years helping the needy in Africa, and trekked all over Patagonia. You would think this was enough to pique a woman's interest. However, because of his large nose and small stature, women at bars wouldn't give him a chance to reveal his accomplishments - a sad but true story.
Three, many of the women in bars and clubs are drunks. They don't have a job, they don't read, and they don't know about the world. All they care about is getting drunk. I don't know about you but this doesn't seem like an ideal place for meeting a great girl unless you're an alcoholic looking for someone to share a bottle with.
Four, bars and clubs are noisy. If aren't blessed with model good looks, the only way to attract women is through your words. As Voltaire said, "Give me ten minutes to talk away my ugly face and I'll bed the Queen of France." It's kinda hard to talk away your ugly face when you have to compete against deafeningly loud music.
So if bars and clubs are out of the question, where's a good place to meet women?
Believe it or not, Laundromats. While doing laundry, most women are bored out of their mind. When a charming stranger sparks a conversation with them, it brightens up their day. You'll have a chance to parade your most attractive personality traits.
More importantly, you aren't competing against dozens of other men. Most likely, you'll be the only guy talking to her.
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If you have a dog and you aren't meeting women at the dog park, you are missing out, my friend. Trust me. This is one of the best places to meet and attract women. If you don't have a dog, get one - preferably small. If you have a dog - especially if it is small and unintimidating - women will approach you. They'll want to pet your dog and tell you how it's so cute.
So let's get on with how to meet women at the dog park. Here's what to do: spot a woman and her dog. Next, move in her vicinity. Your dogs will inevitably start playing together. Then say to her, "Our dogs make a cute couple and should get married."
She'll laugh.
If they both happen to be boys or girls say, "They make the cutest couple. Is gay marriage legal in our state?"
She'll be rolling on the floor laughing.
Then suggest that you guys should exchange number so your dog can go out on a date together.
She'll laugh but give you her number.
Then say, "These crazy pups are gonna get into trouble without parental supervision. So we'll have to chaperon them."
She'll laugh and you'll have a date set up with an attractive girl. On your doggy date, don't go back to the dog park. Take her hiking or maybe to the beach.
These type of dates are always more fun than doing the old and clichd dinner and a movie. But most importantly, it won't break your bank account.
Important note: I've seen this advice work for short guys. I've seen this advice work for overweight guys. I've seen this advice work for guys with no money.
My point: If you heed the advice I've given you, you will get results. I've left you with no excuses. Stop wasting any more time. Go out and attract the woman of your dreams.
This will work whether you make your money from marketing, advertising, the finance world, selling autos, or something else.
Whether you're into blogs, gardening, sports, spirituality, religion, traveling the world, being a family man, or health and fitness, this advice will help you.
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